lynnwv | January 10, 2008 14:30
Ok, got my initial diagnosis today. The cancer is definitely back. The MRI showed a clear area and possibly/probably lymph node involvement. Probably Stage III. I tried to coax out of her a possibility of stage II, but she really didn’t want to budge. My surgeon was almost outraged that it came back with such a fury. She said, twice, that there was nothing there 6 months ago!
Mom went with me today and she was the bravest woman I know. I shouldn’t have been surprised, she usually is. My lovely 74 year old mother, is my rock.
I have a biopsy on Tuesday. I’m not really sure what that’s about accept to get a lab diagnosis. Then on the 21st I see the plastic surgeon and my breast surgeon again, so I will schedule the surgery then. I’ve decided on a bilateral mastectomy. I’m hoping they can do a rebuild at the same time, the one where you get the tummy tuck. I’ll know more when I see the plastic surgeon.
I asked her if I could wait until my grandbaby is born to have my surgery. She said she wanted to do it as soon as possible. I saw her face saying this came on fast, we don’t want it to spread. Probably be really close to the time the baby comes.
I know I’m not my usual funny, silly self today. I promise the next message will be better. I’m just feeling worn out. Just wanted to post, so people would know what’s going on.
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